SenMandarin: 得:表达必须与需要

In Chinese, 得 (děi) is commonly used to express necessity.

It usually means:

  • have to
  • need to
  • must

It is especially common in everyday spoken Chinese.

1. The Basic Structure

Subject + 得 (děi) + Verb Phrase

我得走了。

Wǒ děi zǒu le.

I have to go.

你得多喝水。

Nǐ děi duō hē shuǐ.

You need to drink more water.

我们明天得早点儿出发。

Wǒmen míngtiān děi zǎodiǎnr chūfā.

We have to leave earlier tomorrow.

她今天得完成作业。

Tā jīntiān děi wánchéng zuòyè.

She has to finish her homework today.

💡 得 (děi) comes before the main verb or verb phrase.

Chinese learning illustration: Subject + 得 (děi) + Verb Phrase


2. When Do We Use 得 (děi)?

Use 得 (děi) when something is necessary because of a situation, responsibility, plan, or practical need.

下雨了,我得带伞。

Xiàyǔ le, wǒ děi dài sǎn.

It’s raining, so I need to take an umbrella.

明天有考试,我今晚得复习。

Míngtiān yǒu kǎoshì, wǒ jīnwǎn děi fùxí.

I have an exam tomorrow, so I have to study tonight.

我八点上课,七点半得出门。

Wǒ bā diǎn shàngkè, qī diǎn bàn děi chūmén.

My class starts at eight, so I need to leave home at seven thirty.

这个工作今天得做完。

Zhège gōngzuò jīntiān děi zuòwán.

This work has to be finished today.

In many everyday situations, have to or need to is a more natural English translation than must.

Chinese learning illustration: 2. When Do We Use 得 (děi)?


3. How to Ask a Question

The easiest question pattern is:

Subject + 得 + Verb Phrase + 吗?

我今天得去吗?

Wǒ jīntiān děi qù ma?

Do I have to go today?

我们明天得带书吗?

Wǒmen míngtiān děi dài shū ma?

Do we need to bring our books tomorrow?

你周末也得工作吗?

Nǐ zhōumò yě děi gōngzuò ma?

Do you have to work on the weekend too?

You may also hear:

是不是得 + Verb Phrase?

我们是不是得早点儿走?

Wǒmen shì bu shì děi zǎodiǎnr zǒu?

Do we need to leave a little earlier?

For beginners, 得……吗? is the simplest pattern to remember.

Chinese learning illustration: 是不是得 + Verb Phrase?


4. How to Say “Don’t Have To”

The usual negative form of 得 (děi) is not 不得.

To express “don’t have to,” use:

不用 + Verb Phrase

你明天不用来。

Nǐ míngtiān bú yòng lái.

You don’t have to come tomorrow.

今天没有作业,我们不用复习。

Jīntiān méiyǒu zuòyè, wǒmen bú yòng fùxí.

There is no homework today, so we don’t have to review.

不必 + Verb Phrase

不必 also means “do not need to,” but it sounds slightly more formal.

你不必担心。

Nǐ bú bì dānxīn.

You don’t need to worry.

你不必现在回答。

Nǐ bú bì xiànzài huídá.

You don’t have to answer now.

不需要 + Verb Phrase

你不需要买票。

Nǐ bù xūyào mǎi piào.

You don’t need to buy a ticket.

For everyday conversation, 不用 is usually the most natural choice.

Chinese learning illustration: 不需要 + Verb Phrase


5. Be Careful with 不得 (bùdé)

不得 (bùdé) does not normally mean “don’t have to.”

It usually expresses prohibition:

  • must not
  • may not
  • be prohibited from

这里不得停车。

Zhèlǐ bùdé tíngchē.

Parking is prohibited here.

考试的时候不得使用手机。

Kǎoshì de shíhou bùdé shǐyòng shǒujī.

Mobile phones must not be used during the exam.

未经允许,不得进入。

Wèijīng yǔnxǔ, bùdé jìnrù.

Do not enter without permission.

Notice the difference:

你明天不用上班。

Nǐ míngtiān bú yòng shàngbān.

You don’t have to work tomorrow.

你明天不得上班。

Nǐ míngtiān bùdé shàngbān.

You are not allowed to work tomorrow.

The second sentence is possible, but its meaning is completely different.

Chinese learning illustration: 5. Be Careful with 不得 (bùdé)


6. 得 (děi) vs. 要 (yào)

Both 得 and 要 can sometimes express necessity, but 要 has more possible meanings.

得 (děi)

得 clearly emphasizes that something is necessary.

我得走了。

Wǒ děi zǒu le.

I have to go.

要 (yào)

Depending on the context, 要 can mean:

  • want;

  • be going to;

  • need to;

  • should.

我要走了。

Wǒ yào zǒu le.

I’m going to leave. / I need to leave.

Therefore, 得 is often clearer when you specifically want to express “have to.”

Chinese learning illustration: 要 (yào)


7. 得 (děi) vs. 必须 (bìxū)

Both can express strong necessity, but their style is different.

得 (děi)

Common and natural in conversation:

我明天得早点儿起床。

Wǒ míngtiān děi zǎodiǎnr qǐchuáng.

I have to get up earlier tomorrow.

必须 (bìxū)

Stronger and more formal. It is often used in rules, instructions, or serious statements:

学生必须按时到校。

Xuésheng bìxū ànshí dào xiào.

Students must arrive at school on time.

A simple way to remember:

👉 得 = everyday spoken necessity
👉 必须 = stronger or more formal necessity

Chinese learning illustration: 必须 (bìxū)


8. One Character, Three Pronunciations

The character 得 has three common pronunciations.

得 (děi) — have to

我得学习。

Wǒ děi xuéxí.

I have to study.

得 (de) — a structural particle

他说得很好。

Tā shuō de hěn hǎo.

He speaks very well.

得 (dé) — to get or obtain

他得了第一名。

Tā dé le dì-yī míng.

He won first place.

In this article, we are focusing on 得 (děi).

Chinese learning illustration: 得 (dé) — to get or obtain


9. Common Mistakes

❌ Using 不得 for “don’t have to”

我明天不得上课。
This means that attending class is not allowed.

✅ Use 不用

我明天不用上课。

Wǒ míngtiān bú yòng shàngkè.

I don’t have to attend class tomorrow.


❌ Pronouncing 得 as de

我得走了。

Here, 得 is pronounced děi, because it means “have to.”


❌ Putting the modal 得 after the verb

我买得一些水果。 ✘

✅ Put 得 before the verb

我得买一些水果。

Wǒ děi mǎi yìxiē shuǐguǒ.

I need to buy some fruit.

Chinese learning illustration: ✅ Put 得 before the verb


Quick Review

To express “have to”:

Subject + 得 (děi) + Verb Phrase

我得回家了。

Wǒ děi huí jiā le.

I have to go home.

To express “don’t have to”:

Subject + 不用 / 不必 / 不需要 + Verb Phrase

你不用等我。

Nǐ bú yòng děng wǒ.

You don’t have to wait for me.

To express prohibition:

不得 + Verb Phrase

这里不得吸烟。

Zhèlǐ bùdé xīyān.

Smoking is prohibited here.